TALES FROM THE BRAT FARM
I know pretty much everyone has heard of *The Mother's Curse*. For anyone that is unsure, it goes like this: *When you get married and have kids, I hope you have one JUST LIKE YOU!*
I never wished that on any of my kids. I'm not that cruel but.....God is good. Even without the curse, I can see the shit coming and hitting the wall. Now Chewlee is in a class all her own. She's much more outgoing than the Princess was at her age and a lot more articulate. She also has a more vivid imagination but I think some of those things are kind of tied in with her being outgoing. She's been around adults more than most kids are, especially since we don't have many kids around here. When the Princess finally put her into nursery/preschool, it was for the socialization more than anything else. It was a good thing except......she got to see kids that were not exactly NICE kids for one reason or another. Kids that threw tantrums. Kids that talked back to grownups. Kids that hit and bit others. You take your chances subjecting your child to an atmosphere like that. Although I will say, the school Chewlee was in did not keep real problem kids for long.
Right now, Chewlee is going through a phase where she is testing the borders of behavior that we will tolerate. You can't let her get away with bad behavior even ONCE or it just gets worse. It's not a fun time and she changes so rapidly from our precious kid to a little monster that it takes you aback at times. But, I watch her and I imagine her as a preteen or a teenager and I am kind of concerned about the Princess being up to the task. It will not be an easy time. With Chewlee's personality, it will be even worse than normal because I think she's going to have a mouth on her.
She may love us but she will be getting ready to take her place in a world that won't include us except on the fringes. That's if we do our job right. I think she WILL go to college because her mother has and her mother will be a teacher. Chewlee knows her mother is going to school to get a special diploma so that she can teach school. That idea fascinates her. She thinks that is so *special*. I hope she keeps that thought.
An online friend of mine is all upset because her daughter is going into the military after she gets out of school this year. She is going into the air force because it will pay for her nursing school and that is what she wants. Actually, she said her daughter wants to become an RN, then go for another degree that is heading her towards being an MD. We all told her she should encourage that because the air force won't be sending her into any war zones while she is training. Plus, it sounds like she gave it a lot of thought and did some research. She will also look really cool in the uniform.
It seems a lot of kids are doing that these days. Going into the military, I mean. I think it's because the economy sucks but that doesn't mean it's a bad idea. Some are really patriotic and feel they should do their part to keep our country free. The shame is that they might face serious injury or worse. 
We have a storm heading our way so I should get this posted for you all. No news from my son yet about his wife but that may be because he is either visiting with her or,if she is home, taking care of her while she is recovering. I am still saying a prayer for good news. Love you all. ![]()
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