TALES FROM THE BRAT FARM
Yesterday, when I got to the preschool to pick up Chewlee, she said to me, *I am so happy that it is you that came to get me today, Grandma!* I have no idea what prompted that but I asked her in the car on our way back home. She told me it was *because she missed me*. Awwwww!
In all the time that I have been picking her up, not once has she NOT been excited and happy to see me. She could be having fun running around outside with her little friends but she will stop dead, run up to me and hug me around the waist like she hasn't seen me in ages. She is also reluctant on most nights to leave when her mother comes to get her. Of course, sometimes I know it's because her program isn't over yet and she wants to see the end. That's partly why I started turning off the TV and saying, *There! I'll save it for next time you are here.* That's usually enough to get her to get ready to leave. Sometimes, it's because she knows she will have to go to bed when she gets home and she's not quite ready for that either. But, I can tell by her behavior that she will be good and ready when she gets home, no matter what she thinks.
Most of the time she is very loving and will come over to me and lay her head on my chest and want me to just give her a little hug or a kiss on her forehead....or both. Sometimes, she wants to stand between my legs when I am sitting down, lean back on me and just stand there watching TV with me. Other times, she wants to sit in my lap and will lean into my chest and wrap an arm around her.....like I need encouragement for that....LOL.
She can be a nag. Like on the days she wants me to go to the bathroom with her even though she's big enough to go by herself. Sometimes, she only wants me to stand outside the door. I have no idea why but it's almost as if she's afraid of something and isn't really sure what it is. If she wants something to eat and I tell her *just a minute*, she will moan and groan and tell me she is *starving* until I get her whatever it is we have agreed she can eat.
She can forget to say please and thank you at times but I won't move until she does say those things. We call them the *magic words*. Most of the time she doesn't forget so I give her points for that. She will also say, *No, thank you* if she doesn't want something she's offered. If she tells me something that sounds a little fishy to me, I ask more questions until I understand exactly what she was trying to tell me. Kids speak a different language sometimes and it's up to US to get it clear and right. I could think she was lying if I didn't clear things up and I wouldn't want to punish her or think badly of her wrongly.
She told me Harley hit her today. I asked her why he hit her and she said, *Because he likes me.* It was said matter-of-fact. I asked her what she did when he hit her. She said she told the teacher and he got a time out. I was startled but said, *All because he hit you because he likes you?* She gave me this disgusted look and said, *No, it was because he BIT me, too*. I laughed a little inside but said, *Well, you didn't tell me that he bit you, too. Did he bite you hard?* She said, *No, but biting isn't nice.*
I found out that Chewlee calls her dreams a *dream story*. She has become afraid of ghosts, monsters, dinosaurs and biting ants. She actually called me to come and get her because the guest room door was open but the room was dark and she was afraid to walk past it alone. I spent the next 10 minutes telling her that *I* wasn't afraid of ghosts, monsters or dinosaurs and, if any showed up around here, they had better be afraid of ME if they scare my Chewlee. She got the biggest grin on her face and said, *So you don't have any ghosts or monsters or dinosaurs in your house, huh? You make a monster face (she made one) and scare them away!*
She then told me about her *dream story* last night which was about a BIG bug and even her mommy was afraid of it and it was telling her it was going to eat her. She imitated the voice she said was the bug's telling her this and said she was scared and she was running away. When she stopped, I asked her what happened to the bug? She said her mommy got mad at it and she killed it. She stepped all over it and sprayed it with big bug spray until it was dead. I told her that was an exciting dream story and she said, *Yes, it was but it scared me and I told mommy about it and she said she would make sure she always had big bug spray.* Reassurance that every child needs for a happy ending to a scary *dream story*. ![]()
When the Princess got here to pick her up, the very first thing Chewlee told her about was Harley BUT she included the fact that he bit her finger (she hadn't told me WHERE he had bitten her) and he had to go to *time out* in the baby room. Her mother made the proper fuss over it all and then she told her what we had learned today......*try it....you'll like it!* which was about trying new things. She had waved off trying a fresh blueberry but I coaxed her into it with a Yo Gabba Gabba lesson/song. So, she tried it and she liked it. In fact, I caught her with it in my computer room, eating them like popcorn. I made her put them back because they are the Beast's for his peace of mind regarding the cancer.
Time to get this up for you for tonight. My baby gave me a big hug and a kiss and said, *I love you, Grandma* before she went home with the Princess. I pass along the *Love you* to you all. ![]()
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