TALES FROM THE BRAT FARM
Tomorrow (today when you read this) the Boy's aunt will be undergoing her graft surgery. It won't be painful for her to begin with but, once the anesthesia wears off.....OUCH!!! They will be taking a section from her thigh and using it to cover the hole that resulted from complications after knee surgery and the stent surgery. She is in her 80's, I believe, and she could sure use the prayers. Thank you.
Sister Cee will be having her surgery on February 4th. Just pray it is NOT cancer, which seems to haunt our family. One of our uncles died from cancerous polyps on his vocal chords. Her doctor doesn't think this is the case with her but we won't be sure until after the biopsy is done. Some serious prayers, here, please. She should easily recover. She is 4 years younger than I am and has been very healthy during her lifetime.
I'm sitting here listening to our neighbor in back of our house cutting up a tree that was felled from the tornado that hit our area. The tornado didn't hit it directly but the rain before it and then the heavy winds made it fall over. Luckily, it didn't hit the house. He's cutting it up so it can continue to dry and they can use it in the fireplace. Sheesh, there's enough wood there to last them over a while winter, maybe longer. The tree was HUGE! But, it blocks access to the back yard and it's a tangle even on foot. You can get back there using the other side of the house but there is a small hill there that leads up to the back yards of the lots/houses above. It's full of small saplings and lots of weeds so even going that way can be a pain in the ass. He's been lucky so far and his John Deere has allowed him to get back there to mow the lawn. It's just that we worry about him since he's partially disabled and has difficulty getting around.
He's the neighbor that often goes out in his back yard and shoots squirrels. I really think he uses a pellet gun but I'm not sure. I always, always jump about three feet when he shoots it off just because of how it echoes. He doesn't just shoot the squirrels because they are pests. He actually EATS them. **Insert green face here**
His wife, Nancy, told me she won't cook them. HE does it. He makes a squirrel stew out of it. He throws the entrails and skin into the woods at the end of a path he's made back into it. Something is eating them because he always checks on it. I doubt they eat the skin with the fur. It probably just dries and falls apart slowly. The ants probably help that way. It's just we don't have any ants I've seen during the winter. But...I could be wrong.
He used to eat armadillo and Nancy said they really taste like pork. During the depression, people referred to them as *the poor man's pig* and I guess that's why. I was surprised because I haven't seen any around here all the time we've lived here but Nancy assures me they just aren't in our neighborhood but they ARE here.
Our next door neighbor, Courtney, finally had her baby. A little boy, 6lbs. The Beast has seen him (I haven't yet) because he was outside when she and the baby came home from the hospital. He said the baby was sooooo tiny. I reminded him that we had TWO
that were smaller than that. Our first weighed 5lbs.4 oz., our second was only 5lbs when she came home. Our boys were both over six lbs and our oldest son, Mustachio, was almost 7 lbs. He was the surviving supposed to be twin. I had always wondered why I had already delivered when they knocked me out. I was protesting the whole time. It was afterward that my doctor explained to me that he was actually a surviving twin and my placenta had absorbed the twin that died in the womb. I never even shared that with my hubby but I DID finally tell my son when he told me he has always felt like something was missing in him. After trying to describe how he felt, I told him and he had one of those moments of revelation. He said a lot of things made sense to him that hadn't before I shared that. I mean, there was no reason to tell anyone about it. Nothing could be done and it was over. My doctor said my placenta (which they had a difficult time delivering) was over 8lbs. ![]()
But that's not a tale I would tell Courtney and I will probably never discuss it again.
Ahhh, the things we go through at times and never discuss. Feelings, events, worries, scares and even hopes. Someone...a character on a show I watch.....said that we all have different secrets...ALL of us. I think that's true. A friend of mine was raped as a teenager and never told anyone about it until she was in her 50's. She said she had always felt guilty about it because she had put herself in a bad situation and felt it was the price she paid for being stupid. She started to cry telling us (a couple of us have been friends for over 50 years and shared many things together, both good and bad) but I think it was cathartic for her. She said she felt like a weight had lifted from her heart. We had told her that she wasn't guilty of anything. The guy involved was. Know what? We found out he eventually went to prison. Can you guess what for? ![]()
How did we wander like this? Guess it's just my mind and trying to put off some things I should be doing (but I'm not
). It didn't hit the 50's today like they said it would but it doesn't feel bad outside. I stood on the deck for a bit, watching the neighbor cutting up the tree with his chainsaw. No wind helps. The high was only 46 but, like I've said before, I guess I am getting climatized to this area.
Bratfink said it's been snowing steadily in Inderaner (as she calls it) and doesn't look like it's going to stop any time soon. Snow is covering everything! It won't be fun for the Boy's cousins to get to the hospital that's located in Indy. I believe that's a 30-35 mile drive for them. I'm sure they will both be there, waiting for their mother to come out of surgery and talk to the doctors about her prognosis. I wish them a safe journey and good news.
Love you all. I'm going to close this and continue my search for a recipe that I've been trying to find for several hours now. It's an old one and I used to love it. It was called *spaghetti con du fromage* and is a meatless cheese spaghetti recipe that has green and yellow peppers, green onions and pimento. It also calls for a yellow cheese and a few other things plus cream or half and half. I ALMOST remember it and know I would if I found the recipe again. Sounds like it would be easy, right? No such luck. Like Bratfink said, it sounds like I might have to *spearmint*....
If worse comes to worst, I guess I WILL have to experiment until I find the taste I remember and have been craving for a couple weeks now.
Be good, stay warm, drive carefully and have some fun. It's TGIF!!!!!! ![]()
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